learn to love your self

with him as my first everything,i let the highs of new-relationship bliss transform me into someone i could hardly recognize. I closed up, quited down and became his ideal girl–a hushed version of me who stifled laughter and feeling. I gave up my funky threads and limelight affairs and squirmed into the suit of the girlfriend of his dreams. i was happy- primarily coz he was happy kasi…
In many respects, however , we were a perfect couple. With our emotions constantly in check, arguments came few and far between and actual fights were rare. We toiled hard to keep the peace and determined to make the relationship work-sometimes, too hard to a fault.struggling, I settled into a new me, stood smiling earnestly on the same sidelines with my boyfriend, and took my place as the half of the silent pair.but then, he manage to broke my heart..
Looking back, that heartbreak was the hardest to get over-the reason? I found that it was for that naive love that change myself the most. I wanted to be perfect for him and made me his ideal type the peg of my personal identity.
Never mind if i was fine with the way i was. Never mind if i couldn’t be myself around him. Never mind if i knew that i could be love as myself, but refused to believe it. I was too consumed with changing for him that I contorted, mask, and lost some parts that made me ME…
His mistake: he wanted to make me someone just like him
My mistake: i let him..
My heartache was a painful price but the invaluable lesson was so worth it. I learned that you should never change for anyone but yourself. Its always nice to work at being better, but you must examine your reasons.know that it is only when you tweak yourself for yourself that come out your most lovable version.

While you may take inspiration from others, it is important to remember that you must keep true to who you are, love it, and expect that others will definitely do the same.